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What doesn't love last?
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Fantasy: enhances romance but fades over time
Novelty: adds excitement and arousal but fades with familiarity
Arousal: fuels romance but fades over time
Novelty: adds excitement and arousal but fades with familiarity
Arousal: fuels romance but fades over time
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Romantic love decreases after?
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People marry
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What are the 6 styles of loving?
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Eros: erotic love w strong physical component
Ludus: playful and uncommitted
Storge: love that emphasizes friendship and commitment
Mania: possessive/obsessive and full of fantasy
Agape: altruistic, selfless, dutiful
Pragma: practical and pragmatic
Ludus: playful and uncommitted
Storge: love that emphasizes friendship and commitment
Mania: possessive/obsessive and full of fantasy
Agape: altruistic, selfless, dutiful
Pragma: practical and pragmatic
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What type of love do men score higher in? What do women?
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Ludus; Pragmatic and Storgic
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Men believe in love at first.....
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sight
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companionate love
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intimacy and commitment; comfortable affectionate love based on friendship/companionship
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After being married for years, happy couples tend to say....
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"My spouse is like my best friend. I like my spouse as a person"
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Long lasting marriages include...
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companionate love
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What are the 3 types of love on Rubens Love Scale
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Intimacy: "I can confide in my partner about anything"
Dependence: "I'd be miserable without my partner"
Caring: "I would do anything for my partner"
Dependence: "I'd be miserable without my partner"
Caring: "I would do anything for my partner"
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"Love is Blind" meaning?
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Feeling romantic attraction to others but ignoring their faults
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Two factor theory of romantic love?
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Physiological arousal and the belief that the person is the reason for the arousal
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Romantic, passionate love is...
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Emotional, exciting, and intense
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You can be absorbed by your partner by...
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Smiling and eye contact
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Romantic love involves?
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Passion and any form of arousal, pleasant or unpleasant
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What is Excitation transfer?
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Arousal caused by one event fuels a stronger reaction to second, unrelated event
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What fuels romantic love?
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Adrenaline
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What are examples of things that increase a man's physical attraction to a woman?
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Stand up comedy
Disgusting movie
Running in place
Swaying on spooky bridge
Disgusting movie
Running in place
Swaying on spooky bridge
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What are the four types of love and define each
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Romantic love: combination on intimacy and passion
Companionate love: high intimacy and commitment; low passion
Fatuous love: passion and commitment; no intimacy
Consummate love: intimacy, passion, and commitment
Companionate love: high intimacy and commitment; low passion
Fatuous love: passion and commitment; no intimacy
Consummate love: intimacy, passion, and commitment
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What type of love is common in older couples?
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Companionate love
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What are the three building blocks of love(Triangualr Theory of Love) and define each
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Passion: emotional arousal and sexual desire
Intimacy: feelings of warmth, understanding, communication, support, and sharing
Commitment: decision to stay and work on relationship
Intimacy: feelings of warmth, understanding, communication, support, and sharing
Commitment: decision to stay and work on relationship
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What are other components to love?
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Nonlove: no intimacy, passion, or commitment
Infatuation: passion
Liking: high intimacy
Empty love: commitment; no passion or intimacy
Infatuation: passion
Liking: high intimacy
Empty love: commitment; no passion or intimacy
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What does Ancient Greece say about love?
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Love is madness